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Greetings! and a very happy Easter 2008. Indeed, He is risen! This is the reason
for our existence as Christians. We face challenges in this world. Let us face it
with the help of the Risen One and our reward in heaven will be great. One of the
challenges we face today is passing on our Christian values to our children.
In this way, the whole congregation was reminded of the mercy and forgiveness proclaimed
in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the need we all have to renew our faith.
My strong belief is that we can transfer our biblical values to our children and
teenagers. We can equip them to live godly lives in the midst of an ungodly world.
Of course, the obvious question is HOW? What can we do to pass on our values to
our kids? What can we do to instill biblical concepts of truth and morality within
our children and teens?
The answer is in the word of God, in the model He gave to Israel for teaching truth
to children. In Deut 6:4-7 Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. Love
the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.
These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them
on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the
road, when you lie down and when you get up. (NIV)
According to this verse the first step is to build a relationship with our children.
Passing our values to our children requires a healthy relationship.
God's model for teaching Biblical truth to young people called, not only for a constant
process, but for a relational method as well. Look at verse 7 – when you sit, walk,
lie down or get up. How can we expect to teach these things to our sons and daughters
when we don't spend any time with them? How can we expect to teach them if we are
never around, if we never sit with them in our house, if we are never walk with
them by the way, if we are not by their side when they get to bed, if we never see
them when they wake up?
A big part of the problem we see all around us in our society is the result of messed
up relationships. We cannot impart truth apart from honest, meaningful relationships.
We are to teach diligently when we sit, walk, lie down, and rise up. In other words,
God wants us to teach his truths in every relational interaction with our children.
It's not only about quality time but about quantity time too.
Biblical truth and godly values are best understood in the context of a relationship.
For example, if I need to correct my child, I have learned to begin by asking a
question that applies to my relationship with her. If the answer to that question
is positive, then I can be confident that she will respond to my correction. I ask,
"Do you know that I love you?" By asking that question before I offer correction,
I appeal to her, not on the basis of my authority, but on the basis of our relationship.
So, the first step in passing our values of faith to our children is building a
relationship. Parents and Teachers let us take this truth seriously and make our
children belong to Kingdom of God. Amen.
- Pastor Godwin
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